Relationships
Moving in together, marriage, long distance, breaking up — choices where feelings and facts are hard to separate. These templates help you lay both out honestly, weigh what matters and see where the balance really is.
Should I delete dating apps?
Dating apps put thousands of potential matches in your pocket, but endless swiping can drain your time, dent your self-esteem and leave real dates feeling like a chore. Weigh the reach of the apps against the burnout before you delete — or reinstall — them.
4 pros4 cons~2 minShould I elope or have a big wedding?
Eloping trades the guest list and the price tag for intimacy and control — but it can also disappoint family and skip a once-in-a-lifetime celebration you can't redo. A big wedding buys the shared memory and the ritual, at the cost of months of planning, real money and other people's opinions. Weigh what the day is actually for before you book anything.
4 pros5 cons~2 minShould I end a toxic friendship?
A friendship that leaves you criticized, guilty or exhausted more often than supported deserves an honest look. Ending it can return your energy and self-respect — but shared history, mutual friends and the chance that your friend is struggling rather than toxic all argue for care. Weigh both sides calmly before you decide.
4 pros4 cons~2 minShould I end the relationship?
Every long relationship has rough seasons, so the question is whether you're in a fixable slump or a fundamental mismatch. Separate solvable problems — communication, stress, routine — from the unsolvable ones like incompatible life goals or eroded respect.
4 pros4 cons~2 minShould I get back with my ex?
Some couples genuinely fix what broke them and come back stronger; many more repeat the same cycle with higher stakes. The honest question isn't whether you miss them — you do — it's whether the specific thing that ended it has actually changed.
4 pros4 cons~2 minShould we open our relationship?
Opening a relationship can deepen honesty and meet needs one partner cannot fill alone, or it can expose cracks that monogamy was quietly papering over. Before you change the rules you both live by, lay out the real trade-offs instead of deciding in the heat of a good week or a hard one.
4 pros5 cons~2 minShould I try a long-distance relationship?
Long distance can work — couples with a concrete end date and honest communication routinely survive it — but it runs on hope with a deadline. Without a plan for closing the gap, distance usually decides the relationship for you, just more slowly and painfully.
4 pros4 cons~2 minShould we get married?
Marriage is a legal, financial and emotional merger, not just a bigger commitment ceremony. The strongest predictor of a good outcome isn't the proposal — it's whether you've already agreed on money, kids, location and how you fight. Weigh those before the ring.
4 pros4 cons~2 minShould we have a joint or separate budget?
Money is one of the most common sources of tension in a relationship — and how you organize it matters. Pooling everything into a joint budget or keeping your finances separate is a real trade-off: weigh transparency and shared goals against autonomy and spending-style friction, and see which model fits your couple.
5 pros4 cons~2 minShould we move in together?
Moving in together cuts rent in half and tests the relationship under real conditions — chores, money, bad moods and all. But sliding in for convenience rather than deciding on purpose is one of the best-documented predictors of trouble. Weigh it deliberately.
4 pros4 cons~2 minShould we sign a prenuptial agreement?
A prenup brings clarity and an honest money conversation before marriage and can protect what each of you built before it — but the topic feels unromantic, costs money to draft and can be read as distrust. This template lays out both sides calmly so you and your partner can weigh them together.
4 pros5 cons~2 minShould we try marriage counseling?
Couples don't have to be on the brink to benefit from counseling — most who wait until then have already let problems calcify for years. The real questions are whether both partners will show up honestly, whether the timing and cost make sense, and whether the issues are ones therapy can actually reach. Weigh those before you book or write it off.
4 pros5 cons~2 min